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woman with blonde hair pulled back, sun glasses, sheer blouse overlooking a lake, good-bye what ifs, hello possibilities

June 19, 2023 · 11 Comments

Good-bye What Ifs, Hello Possibilities

Encouragement· Growing in Grace

Welcome to my Friends and Fellowship Serenity Summer Soiree. Each week during the months of June, July, and August plan to enjoy meeting some of my favorite writing friends and fellowship around the goodness of the Lord. This week, we are encouraged by my sweet friend, Lois Flowers, in saying good-bye to what ifs and hello … Read More about Good-bye What Ifs, Hello Possibilities

dark brown pitbull/boxer dog with pale pink bow on her head when saying goodbye opens old wounds

September 16, 2020 · 6 Comments

When Saying Goodbye Opens Old Wounds

Encouragement

Silence. The finality of death is both silent and deafening at the same time. There is no silence that speaks louder than death. This is life’s hardest goodbye, made more painful when saying goodbye opens old wounds. You see the old wounds of grief never truly heal; they bleed again with each new loss. Grief … Read More about When Saying Goodbye Opens Old Wounds

pink wilted roses in white pitcher vase, when all things are not good

September 23, 2020 · 8 Comments

When All Things Are Not Good

Growing in Grace

Many of us pass through times of suffering and hardship. Jesus Himself told us “in this world we would have suffering.” In Christian hope we grasp at promises like Romans 8:28, believing “all things will turn out good.” But what happens when all things are not good? What happens when suffering only gets worse? Verses … Read More about When All Things Are Not Good

white pitcher of white daises on white wood table, June Joys share four somethings

June 25, 2022 · 26 Comments

June Joys: Share Four Somethings

Encouragement

Waving farewell to another month, I rejoice in a glance back at my June Joys joining Heather Gerwing as she hosts a monthly feature called, Share Four Somethings, where writers share the fourth Saturday of each month something in each of four categories from the previous month. Many readers notice I choose a theme for each month, which often … Read More about June Joys: Share Four Somethings

Niagara Falls at dusk, the healing power of grief

May 6, 2026 · 8 Comments

The Healing Power of Grief

Growing in Grace

Though a friend of mine lost her husband to cancer thirteen years ago, she still describes grief as a frequent companion. She says over the years she softened to its presence, though it often comes without warning and never by invitation. After a pause, she added her belief in the healing power of grief. Her … Read More about The Healing Power of Grief

silhouette of woman facing toward light, turning toward the light when darkness falls

September 17, 2025 · 10 Comments

Turning Toward the Light When Darkness Falls

Encouragement· Growing in Grace

September is a fun month of transition as autumn plays hide and seek amid summer’s long farewell. Over on Substack I wrote about this liminal space and how I navigate it. You can read the post HERE. One of my favorite aspects of September are the sunflowers. Vibrant and full of Joy, I consider them … Read More about Turning Toward the Light When Darkness Falls

single purple flower bud in field in the rain, when new life comes through trial

April 3, 2024 · 14 Comments

When New Life Comes Through Trial

Encouragement· Growing in Grace

The rain cascading off the roof like a waterfall reminded me of the overwhelming emotion which paralyzed me the moment I heard the news. Though the passing of time blurs the sharpness of the memory, the old ache validates its truth. When new life comes through trial, we seldom value the process as much as … Read More about When New Life Comes Through Trial

clear vase of lilacs, camera on table, what hope looks like

May 24, 2023 · 6 Comments

What Hope Looks Like

Encouragement· Growing in Grace

Visuals enhance learning for me. Even more than illustrations, I often learn more reading a transcript of a presentation than when I simply listened to it. This month’s One Word challenge both inspired and enlightened me while exploring what Hope looks like through photographs captured in my daily interactions. Unlike some more cerebral words, Hope … Read More about What Hope Looks Like

vase of sunflowers on window sill, one beautiful life

May 15, 2023 · 11 Comments

One Beautiful Life

Encouragement

Each calendar month holds memories. While most greet us with pleasant reverie, some harbor painful remembrances. Even before April waved good-bye, May’s grief began gripping my heart. Despite this month’s perpetual sadness, this year, the memory of one beautiful life now in heaven speaks a different kind of sadness. Growing up, the month of May … Read More about One Beautiful Life

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What do you need most on your hardest days? Most What do you need most on your hardest days?

Most of us would say, "comfort". But we often think that comfort is actionable, that our suffering will be lessened, or better, removed.

But the most meaningful comfort I have received has been the quiet company of someone willing to sit with me in the darkness of my despair.

Holding space for someone's pain without attempting to rationalize or worse, sermonize, is the deepest kindness you can offer.

It is the same comfort we receive from Christ. He sits with us in the darkest, hardest places offering the quiet comfort of His presence.

Lamentations 3 reminds us of His mercies, love, and presence giving us Hope. This is true on the good days and the hard days.

"But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
The Lord is my portion,” says my soul,
 “therefore I will hope in him.”
The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him.
It is good that one should wait quietly
for the salvation of the Lord." Lamentations 3:21-26

If this is a hard day for you, remember this one thing, God's love and mercy never fail, they are new every day, even the hard ones.

Who can you encourage with this news today?

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #harddays #trials #godslove #godsmercy #hope #faith
Is God inviting you to bloom out of season? That Is God inviting you to bloom out of season?

That question came to me as I passed this unusual lilac bush the other day.
I also captured this same lilac bush last winter blooming amid the stark cold. (See the 2nd slide)

The normal blooming season for lilac bushes is April-June, however this particular bush blooms in autumn and winter.

Just outside a home along my daily walking route, it is a bit neglected, sparse, and has little foliage.

Yet, it still blooms, albeit out of season.

Pondering this, I realized God was speaking a gentle lesson for me through the courageous lilac bush.

Though my season of suffering seems lengthy, and at times I have felt very much alone, and unseen, this season is not without purpose, or opportunity.

God redeems all suffering and it has a purpose in our spiritual formation, but it is not a season of inactivity or isolation, as if we are set aside. 

Instead, it can be a season where we become beauty for others, and like the lilac blossoms, a sweet savor of Christ for others in a hard season. We have the opportunity to show forth the beauty of God's presence even in the hard places, and (as the 3rd slide shows) provide soul nourishment for others in their own seasons of suffering.

The capture of the last slide of the grasshopper was a precious up-close moment, as I watched it delicately eating a lilac blossom while basking in the sun.

How can you bloom even in your current hard season, even where your situation may not be as you hoped? Share in the comments!

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #blooming #lilacs #godslove #hope #faith
Have you ever felt like the answer to your prayers Have you ever felt like the answer to your prayers involved more confusion, complexity and intensity to your already painful circumstances? ⁣
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Navigating these feelings in my current season of suffering surfaced my growing need for God’s guidance when my heart is overwhelmed. ⁣
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Sometimes, in His flawless sovereignty, God places me in situations designed to exceed my independent ability for managing them, that I may grow in my knowledge of, and dependence on Him.⁣
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Like many, I turn to the Psalms for solace and language of expression when overcome with suffering. ⁣
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Resting with the treasure of Psalm 25, I mined incredible wisdom from the man after God’s own heart, enriching my relationship with God in my own hard place, but come walk with me and allow the treasure of this psalm meet you in yours too.⁣
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Check out my new Substack post for practical help, hope and a personal update. Link in bio!

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #overwhelm #discouragement #hope #faith #godslove #godspresence
Have you ever felt like the answer to your prayers Have you ever felt like the answer to your prayers involved more confusion, complexity and intensity to your already painful circumstances? ⁣
⁣
Navigating these feelings in my current season of suffering surfaced my growing need for God’s guidance when my heart is overwhelmed. ⁣
⁣
Sometimes, in His flawless sovereignty, God places me in situations designed to exceed my independent ability for managing them, that I may grow in my knowledge of, and dependence on Him.⁣
⁣
Like many, I turn to the Psalms for solace and language of expression when overcome with suffering. ⁣
⁣
Resting with the treasure of Psalm 25, I mined incredible wisdom from the man after God’s own heart, enriching my relationship with God in my own hard place, but come walk with me and allow the treasure of this psalm meet you in yours too.⁣
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Check out my new Substack post for practical help, hope and a personal update. Link in bio!
Yes, even here in this hard place, God is good. I Yes, even here in this hard place, God is good.

I crossed a thin line as I cried out to God in painful lament.

Forced into a difficult relational situation, which seems irrevocably broken; my grief over hurtful words spoken, futility in being misunderstood, and loss of my hope for reconciliation, drove me to lament the hopelessness ravaging my soul.

At the risk of sounding a tad over dramatic, I recorded my desperate thoughts in their raw form in my new blog post to convey the level of lament that washed over my soul in the wake of my unabated suffering, and God’s answering silence.

Perhaps you find yourself in a similar situation. Take some time to read my new blog post, "When Grief Turns Dangerous" for hope. Link in bio!

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #grief #lament #sorrow #hope #faith #godslove
What do you do when your relentless suffering obsc What do you do when your relentless suffering obscures God's goodness?

I crossed a thin line as I cried out to God in painful lament. 

Forced into a difficult relational situation, which seems irrevocably broken; my grief over hurtful words spoken, futility in being misunderstood, and loss of my hope for reconciliation, drove me to lament the hopelessness ravaging my soul.

At the risk of sounding a tad over dramatic, I recorded my desperate thoughts in their raw form in my new blog post to convey the level of lament that washed over my soul in the wake of my unabated suffering, and God’s answering silence. 

Perhaps you find yourself in a similar situation. Take some time to read my new blog post, "When Grief Turns Dangerous" for hope. Link in bio!

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #grief #lament #sorrow #hope #faith #godslove
What hard thing is overwhelming you today? Maybe What hard thing is overwhelming you today?

Maybe you're facing another day of a chronic illness in your own life or that of a loved one.

Maybe the pain of a broken relationship, or grief over the loss of someone close to you.

Perhaps, like me you face another day waiting for God to answer your pleas for help in your suffering and confusion.

Whatever hard thing you face today, I have something God wants you to know, a promise that He will never break:

"The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8

God spoke this promise to the nation of Israel after 30 long years in the wilderness, just before they would enter the land He promised them.

Though they had endured hardship and suffering, He did not want them to be discouraged, focus on the unknown ahead or allow past failures to define them.

He promised He would never leave them but lead them through whatever they faced.

As a child of God, trusting in the sacrifice of Jesus Christ for you on the Cross, this promise is for you too.

Today, God is with you, He will never leave you, and He will go before you, guiding you through whatever hard thing you face.

Remember God's unfailing love for you and receive this promise in Deuteronomy. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged. God is with you and will bring you through.

What hard thing will you trust God with today?

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #trials #anxiety #overwhelm #hope #faith #godslove #godspresence
In a world of fake AI images how will you know the In a world of fake AI images how will you know the truth when you see it?

You'll have to take my word for it, but this photo was captured by me, and is every bit as real as I am.

But what about God? There are a lot of images out there claiming to be Him, or from Him. We can become confused especially when we need comfort or guidance.

When we want to know what the Heavenly Father is like, we need look no further than Jesus. "The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation." Colossians 1:15

Jesus Himself said if we had seen Him, we have seen the Father. (John 6:46) He came expressly to show us the Father and His love.
Jesus came to redeem mankind from the bondage of sin, but He also came to show us the Father. 

Not so much in a physical sense, but His ways, His compassion, His love.

Jesus is our photograph of the Father.

Today, as you gaze upon the beauty of creation as in this picture I shared, or perhaps a photograph of a loved one, remember as you gaze at Jesus you behold the Father and His love for you.

*excerpted from my book, "A Passion for Christ: A Transformative Faith Journey through the Passion of Christ to a Passion for Christ." see link in bio to purchase!

#serenityinsuffering #godslove #Christ #faith
Whatever you are going through right now, You Are Whatever you are going through right now, You Are Not Alone.

Whether you are struggling with the flood of everything coming at once, or feel like you are drowning in your sorrow, God is with you.

When you feel the pain of walking the hardest path you have ever walked, God holds your hand, He will keep you from the flames.

No path you walk, nor circumstance you face is isolated from God's presence, He will never abandon you. His unfailing love encircles and keeps you.

"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2

What place feels hard for you today, where do you need the reminder that you are not alone? Tell me in the comments and I will pray for you!

#serenityinsuffering #suffering #trials #overwhelm #sorrow #pain #loneliness #hope #godspresence #godslove
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