Fleeing the comfort and protection of home, betrayed by the son once so beloved, the bedraggled figure shoulders stooped, eyes barely seeing the next step clouded by tears, stumbled along the path. Breath shortened by the tightness gripping weary lungs, helplessly wondering, “how to trust God in the midst of this suffocating anxiety?
Welcome to Mindfulness Monday! Where we learn some easy ways to be more present “in the moment” at our jobs, in our homes, with our families and friends.
Learning to recognize God and what He has for us in each divine moment He offers. We acknowledge the belief that God is with us always.
We confess His presence is available to us, lifting our spirit and helping us with power and grace. Learning the art of “stillness” so we can hear His voice and view ourselves, others and our surroundings through His eyes.
the faithful are not exempt from anxiety
King David heart heavy, broken, yet pounding forcefully in his chest, fought swirling thoughts fraught with anguish while his ears received the assault of curses. Confusion, self-condemnation and fear for those in his care hung heavy upon him as he trudged through the hill country just outside of Jerusalem.
This man after God’s own heart, giant killer and fierce man of war struggled with anxiety. His psalms often poignantly portrayed his anguish in language so vivid, every reader connects their travail with his.
Scripture reveals many faithful servants who battled anxiety, not because they sinned more than anyone else, but because their broken humanity faced the pressures of life’s harsh realities.
freedom in trusting
The number of people afflicted with anxiety increases almost daily, and despite comments to the contrary, Christians hold no special immunity to it. In fact Proverbs 12:25 clearly speaks of anxiety, “Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, But a good word makes it glad.”
Paul’s exhortation in Philippians 4:6 urges believers toward a posture where they trust God with their anxiety without condemnation. Paul provides an alternative to anxiety, pointing to God’s all sufficiency, willingness to provide for His own and the promise of a peace no other remedy offers.
Jesus, our great High Priest, suffered anxiety in the Garden of Gethsemane: He fully understands your plight and like David, guides His beloved to the freedom of trusting God with anxiety.
anxiety, upheaval and grief
Psalm 3 pours from a heart facing intense sorrow, defeat and betrayal; yet in eight short verses moves from anxiety and overwhelm to a place of freedom and peace.
Penned from the emotion of fleeing his son, Absalom, (2 Samuel 15)David not only faced the betrayal of his son, but of many others choosing to follow Absalom. Even the best imagination fails in filling in the details of emotion experienced by David in fleeing his home, his throne, his people, all while confronting subversive tactics, curses of others and the sure threat of ensuing battle.
David offers three “Selahs” or pauses revealing how to trust God with your anxiety in Psalm 3, as we follow him from anxiety ridden defeat to freedom filled rest in the Lord.
How to trust god with your anxiety
The backdrop contributing to the writing of Psalm 3, as we mentioned, surfaced from Absalom’s insurrection. Brewing for no little while, Absalom, fueled by his bitterness over David’s neglect in punishing his brother Amnon’s treatment of his sister Tamar and faliure in properly reconciling their estrangement after he subsequently killed Amnon; amassed a large following of others disgruntled with King David.
As any Bible scholar knows, David, though a man after God’s own heart, possessed not a few faults. That he mishandled family affairs, contributing to Absalom’s revolt clearly portrays him in less than a favorable light.
We might even conclude he brought the whole matter upon himself, lock, stock and anxiety. And as such, disqualified himself from God’s intervention on his behalf: but the beauty of the three “Selahs” of Psalm 3 speak otherwise.
a closer look at three selahs
David sets the tone for the extent of his anxiety and overwhelm in verses one and two:
Lord, how they have increased who trouble me! Many are they who rise up against me. Many are they who say of me, “There is no help for him in God.” Selah
Psalm 3:1-2
Anxiety Poured Out Before God
David invites us into his overwhelm, painting a picture of his feelings of isolation and abandonment. Often, in the midst of anxiety my thoughts run in the same vein, adding to the overhelm already existant.
David also faces the result of his self-inflicted situation in the condemnation of others’ comments: not even God will help him now.
But notice, he ends these verses with a “Selah”; pausing, sitting with the immensity of the situation along with all of the emotions. From a place of quiet realization of his situation before God, David transitions to the reality of who God is in the same situation in verse 3.
But You, O Lord, are a shield for me, My glory and the One who lifts up my head.
Psalm 3:3
Despite his culpability in the situation and the scoffing of those around him, David arrays the situation before God, pausing in His Presence. From this place he moves from despair to hope-filled courage, boldly petitioning God in verse 4.
I cried to the Lord with my voice, And He heard me from His holy hill. Selah
Psalm 3:4
God Hears His Own
David in confidence of both God’s idenity and His own before Him, cries unto the Lord for deliverance, ending with another “Selah”. For me, I view this Selah as an astonished pause; one born out of knowledge of my undeserving state, yet God answers me.
But the forceful, confidence filled language of the remainder of the psalm reveals the depth of David’s relationship with God. David knew his own unworthiness, yet he knew God’s abundant mercy and forgiveness more intimately. This “Selah” for David indicated the triumph of knowing God hears him. As a result of this pause he moves into verses 5-6.
I lay down and slept; I awoke, for the Lord sustained me. I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people Who have set themselves against me all around.
Psalm 3:5-6
From a place of communion with God, David’s heart moves to trust God with his anxiety, rather than believing the hopelessness of his situation or the lies of others. Resulting in complete rest and the removal of fears for the future.
David then moves to the final two verses of the psalm, with an invitation to a final “Selah”.
Arise, O Lord; Save me, O my God! For You have struck all my enemies on the cheekbone; You have broken the teeth of the ungodly. Salvation belongs to the Lord. Your blessing is upon Your people. Selah
Psalm 3:7-8
God’s Sure Salvation
In the final “Selah”, David petitions God for full salvation from his enemies springing from the knowledge that salvation comes solely from the Lord rather than any human action or remedy because God’s blessing rests continually upon His people.
An audacious pause, David knew not the outcome of the situation with Absalom, but he knew the One who did, and trusted Him with the unknown future. David bids all bound by anxiety and overwhelm join him at the throne of grace, for God’s sure salvation belongs to all who call upon His name.
trusting god transforms your anxiety
Walking with David through Psalm 3, invites you come, no matter the source of anxiety, pour all at the feet of God. Linger in His Presence, seen as His beloved, heard as the treasure of His heart, loved recipient of His sure salvation, freely offered to His own.
Cast off the garment of heaviness and allow the Light of God’s Presence to transform fear and anxiety into greater faith and deeper trust in God. Selah.
Lisa notes says
I was thinking of Paula too when I read this post. 🙂 I appreciate you ladies reminding me to take time for more “Selahs” in my life. We all need them!
Donna says
Lisa, so true we ALL need more “Selahs” in our lives, may we choose those moments more frequently!
Lesley says
It is encouraging to know that God cares about our anxiety, that we can go to him honestly and trust him to help us.
Donna says
Lesley, that is the big takeaway for me, I used to think anxiety was sinful and God did not want to “hear about it”, but I was wrong. He does care and wants us to run to Him that we might be free and find rest in Him.
Lisa Blair says
Arrested by this phrase, “Betrayed by the son once so beloved.” And still loved for they never cease being loved. A mother’s heart always loves – no matter what! That’s how God made us. We love. We trust. We wait for the salvation of God. And whether we see the manifestation here or there, we know surely it will come because He is Faithful and True.
Donna says
Lisa, your words are so true. those of us with prodigals know that our love never changes for the children we hold in our hearts. Perhaps because we too were prodigals once, alienated from God, until the glory of Jesus Christ shined in our hearts. Yes, we will love, we will hope and we will trust in the same for our wayward ones.
Paula Short says
Donna, I love this message! Trusting God with our anxiety indeed. I looked at the 3 Selah’s in the Psalms when deciding to use it for my one word 2021. Such a lovely lesson. Blessings.
~Selah ~
Donna says
Hi Paula! I thought of you when I wrote this post! I was sure you would have seen the 3 Selahs!!!
Joanne Viola says
David, and the other psalmists, put their emotions out there for us to see and learn from. It is no wonder so many of us turn to the psalms to find the words we need to calm our hearts and minds. I am always amazed at how emotions are universal and time has not changed our humanness. I am grateful we can turn to God with our feelings and He meets us right where are.
Donna says
Joanne, I couldn’t agree more, the Psalms provide us with the language of our hearts that many times we are unable to express on our own! I view the psalms as God’s making a way for us to bring overwhelming emotions to Him.
Suzette K. says
Quiet time alone with God in the morning and maintaining an open conversation throughout the day have been key to managing my anxiety and panic attacks. I had to make a conscious decision to implement these spiritual disciplines. Nothing happens overnight and it takes practice, but it’s so worth it.
Donna says
Suzette, you are so right about maintaining a quiet time with God daily and keeping the conversation going throughout the day. I have found these things to be so helpful in managing anxiety. They are indeed “disciplines” requiring our committment, but the results make it all worthwhile!
Lynn says
I love how David’s story is timeless and relatable! Yes, we are transformed when we lean in and trust God in all things (and there might be some wrestling before you fully surrender, but God understands)!
Donna says
Lynn, I love the timelessness of David’s story too. It’s just as relevant today for me as it was for him. I love how he wrestles with God, realistically, but just as realistcally he shelters himself in God’s love and protection!